Let’s be real for a second. Dating in your twenties and thirties is already confusing. Add faith into the mix and suddenly you are juggling attraction, values, life goals, church involvement, emotional maturity, and whether someone actually means it when they say “God first”. I used to tell myself I was being “low maintenance” about dating. I wasn’t. I just didn’t want to admit that I cared deeply about finding someone who shared my faith, not just someone who tolerated it. When “Christian” Starts to Mean Everything (and Nothing) If you have ever tried dating on mainstream apps, you already know the problem. Everyone can tick “Christian”. But that can mean anything from “went to youth group once” to “my faith shapes how I live every day”. Those are very different people. At some point, I realised I was tired of decoding what someone meant by their spiritual status. I…
