Every relationship requires work. We all know it’s true. Every single relationship in the world requires effort from both sides to maintain, and when there is a breakdown there, it can be tough. Sometimes you find yourself wondering whether the relationship is even worth fighting for anymore, and that’s something only you know the answer to. We are going to try to help though, by looking into some of the things that we think you should consider. Keep reading down below if you would like to find out more about this.
Are You In Love With The Person Or The Memories?
One of the questions that you need to ask is whether you are in love with the person standing in front of you, or whether you are in love with the memories that you have created together? If it’s the latter, then it is likely time to move on because this is not enough to sustain a relationship. Unfortunately, sometimes this happens, and the best thing that you can do is walk away before those memories become tainted with the downward spiral of your relationship that will continue if you stay. At least if you walk away now, you still have those happy memories intact between the two of you.
Is There Still Trust Between You?
Is there still trust between you? Without trust, your relationship has nothing. If you cannot trust the person that you are with, then why are you with them in the first place? It’s never going to work if you are constantly wondering what they are doing, if they are lying to you, whether they are cheating on you and so on. You can’t live like this, and more than that, you don’t deserve to live like that. If the trust has gone and it’s not building back up, maybe it’s time to let it go.
Do You Even Want To?
The final, and the most important question, is whether you even want to fight for this relationship. Is it worth it? Are you happy more than you are not? Do you get what you need? These are all things that you need to consider. If you decide that it isn’t, you need to look into the best way to split without everything getting messy. If you’re married you need to look into divorce lawyers and things like a quitclaim deed for the house if one of you is willing to transfer ownership.
If you do not want to continue to fight for your relationship, no matter how hard it is to walk away, you do not have to.
At the end of the day, the only person who can decide whether your relationship is worth fighting for is you. You are the one who is going to have to put in the effort to make it work if this is what you want to do, and you are the one who has to determine whether or not this is the right move for you. It’s not always going to be easy, but that doesn’t mean that it should be super difficult either.
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